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  • Worms Deserve Respect; A Banner Year for Them

    by Ferida WolffWorms

    Since the weather has been so balmy recently, I decided to get my hands dirty and start cleaning up the garden. I pulled up a clump of dried weeds from underneath the butterfly bush and exposed a host of earthworms. They immediately squiggled for cover; they don’t care for light and they don’t want their skin to dry out. Each time I dug into the earth more of them appeared. It seems to be a banner year for worms.

    When I was a kid the boys used to try to scare girls by dangling worms in front of us. The frequent, and expected, response was, “Ewww!” As a mom, I tried to help my own children see the value of worms, without the ewww factor.

    Worms aerate the soil. They dig down and churn up the subsoil, allowing air and water to penetrate, a valuable asset especially for any garden with marl or clay. Their droppings, known as castings, contain nutrients that enrich the soil and consequently the plants that are grown there.

    And worms are great recyclers. Redworms are industrious creatures. Vermicomposting is becoming more widespread. Why not use worms to eat our garbage and transform it into usable addition to our gardens? It’s a win-win situation.

    How intriguing, the variety of life forms — the interaction, support, and sometimes challenge among us. We share this earth, after all.

    Worms deserve our respect.

    Links:

    Be a kid again with some simple facts about wormshttp://urbanext.illinois.edu/worms/facts/index.html

    Meet Mary, the Worm Woman and learn how to make your own worm bin:  http://yucky.discovery.com/flash/worm/pg000223.html

    Get serious about worms: http://www.sas.upenn.edu/~rlenet/Earthworms.html

    Editor’s Note: The Department of Environmental Quality of Louisiana has put together a file on creating a worm farm for homeowners and apartment dwellers:

    Want to make a worm farm? Worm farming is a simple way of turning vegetable and fruit scraps into a great potting soil or soil amendment for your garden or house plants. It can be done year round, by apartment dwellers and home owners. Worm farming is particularly useful for people who would like to compost their food scraps but do not have space for a backyard compost bin.

    ©2012 Ferida Wolff for SeniorWomen.com

  • Stand Your Ground: The 23 States That Have Sweeping Self-Defense Laws Just Like the State of Florida

    by Cora Currier, ProPublica, March 22Trayvon Martin

    “Stand Your Ground,” “Shoot First,” “Make My Day” — state laws asserting an expansive right to self-defense — have come into focus after last month’s killing of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin.

    While local prosecutors have not arrested the shooter, George Zimmerman, the case is now being investigated by the Department of Justice and a Florida state attorney. It’s not clear whether Florida’s self-defense law will be applied in the case. (The police report on the shooting refers to it as an “unnecessary killing to prevent unlawful act.”)

    Still, in not arresting Zimmerman, local officials have pointed to Florida’s wide definition of self-defense. In 2005, Florida became the first state to explicitly expand a person’s right to use deadly force for self-defense. Deadly force is justified if a person is gravely threatened, in the home or “any other place where he or she has a right to be.”

    In Florida, once self-defense is invoked, the burden is on the prosecution to disprove the claim.

    Most states have long allowed the use of reasonable force, sometimes including deadly force, to protect oneself inside one’s home — the so-called Castle Doctrine. Outside the home, people generally still have a “duty to retreat” from an attacker, if possible, to avoid confrontation. In other words, if you can get away and you shoot anyway, you can be prosecuted. In Florida, there is no duty to retreat. You can “stand your ground” outside your home, too.

    Florida is not alone. Twenty-three other states now allow people to stand their ground. Most of these laws were passed after Florida’s. (A few states never had a duty to retreat to begin with.)

    Here’s a rundown of the states with laws mirroring the one in Florida, where there’s no duty to retreat in public places and where, in most cases, self-defense claims have some degree of immunity in court. (The specifics of what kind of immunity, and when the burden of proof lies on the prosecution, vary from state to state.)

    Many of the laws were originally advocated as a way to address domestic abuse cases — how could a battered wife retreat if she was attacked in her own home? Such legislation also has been recently pushed by the National Rifle Association and other gun-rights groups.

    Click on the state to see its law.

    Alabama

    Arizona

    Georgia

    Idaho

    Illinois (The law does not includes a duty to retreat, which courts have interpreted as a right to expansive self-defense.)

    Indiana

    Family photo of Trayvon Martin as a child. Wikimedia Commons

  • Behind the Scenes: White House State Dinner in the Making

    by Colleen Curtis

    Guests at March 14th’s State Dinner honoring David Cameron, the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom and his wife Samantha, will enjoy a meal that represents the best of American hospitality and includes playful references to classic British traditions. First Lady Michelle Obama and White House Executive Chef Cristeta Comerford have put together a menu that features produce harvested yesterday from the White House’s Kitchen Garden, including baby lettuces, spring onions and  fresh herbs. The dinner will be served in a tent on the White House’s South Lawn. [Ed’s Note: For a departure ‘over the pond’, see a virtual tour of Number 10 Downing Street, the PM’s residence]

    The first course, Crisped Halibut with Potato Crust, will be served on a bed of braised baby kale fresh from the White House garden. The salad features spring garden lettuces with shallot dressing and includes a variety of greens, which are also from the Kitchen Garden.

    Comerford says the main course, Bison Wellington, is a “great marriage of the two countries”  and features a uniquely American protein prepared in a quintessentially British style. For dessert, White House pastry chef William Yosses and his team have prepared a lemon sponge pudding in the British style, which they are serving with Newtown Pippin Apples, a variety that was grown by some of our founding fathers, and was even sent as a gift to Queen Victoria in 1838. You can go behind the scenes with the White House’s kitchen team (and a group of chefs from our military branches who were on hand to help with the preparations) in this video:

    Go ‘Behind the Scenes’ and inside the White House kitchen hours before the United Kingdom State Dinner with White House Executive Chef Cristeta Comerford, White House Pastry Chef Bill Yosses, and White House Assistant Pastry Chef Susan Morrison.

    First Lady Michelle Obama Previews the UK State Dinner

    First Lady Michelle Obama speaks to the press, students and other young people before a sneak peek of preparations for the UK state dinner, including what the inside of the tent will look like and details about the evening’s menu.

    Read the Transcript

    And view the menu:

  • Turning to Fairness: NWLC Report on Insurance Discrimination Against Women Today & Affordable Care Act

    About the Center:  “The National Women’s Law Center is a Washington, DC, nonprofit organization working to expand opportunities and eliminate barriers for women and their families, with a major emphasis on women’s health and reproductive rights, education and employment opportunities, and family economic security.”Seal

    “The Center is calling on supporters to learn more about the health care law and share the I Will NOT Be Denied™ video with their families, friends and neighbors. In coming months, the Center will keep supporters up to date on threats to the law in the courts and in Congress and engage them to protect the ACA (Affordable Care Act). Supporters also can join the conversation on Twitter using the #notdenied hashtag and visit the website, www.IWillNotBeDenied.org.”

    Executive Summary

    Women continue to face unfair and discriminatory practices when obtaining health insurance in the individual market — as well as in the group health insurance market.Women are charged more for health coverage simply because they are women, and individual market health plans often exclude coverage for services that only women need, like maternity care. Furthermore, insurance companies — despite being aware of these discriminatory practices — have not voluntarily taken steps to eliminate the inequities. While some states have outlawed or limited these practices, only when the Affordable Care Act is fully implemented in 2014 will they end nationally.

    The National Women’s Law Center’s most recent research shows that:

    •  Gender rating, the practice of charging women different premiums than men, results in significantly higher rates charged to women throughout the country. In states that have not banned the practice, the vast majority, 92%, of best-selling plans gender rate, for example, charging 40-year-old women more than 40-year-old men for coverage. Only 3% of these plans cover maternity services.

  • Consider When Doing Your Taxes: GAO Notes IRS Needs to Enhance Internal Control over Financial Reporting and Taxpayer Data

    What GAO Found IRS Logo

    [Editor’s Note: GAO — Government Accountability Office:

    IRS implemented numerous controls and procedures intended to protect key financial and tax-processing systems; nevertheless, control weaknesses in these systems continue to jeopardize the confidentiality, integrity, and availability of the financial and sensitive taxpayer information processed by IRS’s systems. Specifically, the agency continues to face challenges in controlling access to its information resources.

    For example, it had not always (1) implemented controls for identifying and authenticating users, such as requiring users to set new passwords after a prescribed period of time; (2) appropriately restricted access to certain servers; (3) ensured that sensitive data were encrypted when transmitted; (4) audited and monitored systems to ensure that unauthorized activities would be detected; or (5) ensured management validation of access to restricted areas. In addition, unpatched and outdated software exposed IRS to known vulnerabilities, and the agency had not enforced backup procedures for a key system.

    An underlying reason for these weaknesses is that IRS has not fully implemented a comprehensive information security program. IRS has established a comprehensive framework for such a program, and has made strides to address control deficiencies—such as establishing working groups to identify and remediate specific at-risk control areas; however, it has not fully implemented all key components of its program. For example, IRS’s security testing and monitoring continued to not detect many of the vulnerabilities GAO identified during this audit. IRS also did not promptly correct known vulnerabilities.

    For example, the agency indicated that 76 of the 105 previously reported weaknesses open at the end of GAO’s prior year audit had not yet been corrected. In addition, IRS did not always validate that its actions to resolve known weaknesses were effectively implemented. Although IRS had a process in place for verifying whether each weakness had been corrected, this process was not always working as intended. Of the 29 weaknesses IRS indicated were corrected, GAO determined that 13 (about 45 percent) had not yet been fully addressed.

    Considered collectively, these deficiencies, both new and unresolved from previous GAO audits, along with a lack of fully effective compensating and mitigating controls, impair IRS’s ability to ensure that its financial and taxpayer information is secure from internal threats. This reduces IRS’s assurance that its financial statements and other financial information are fairly presented or reliable and that sensitive IRS and taxpayer information is being sufficiently safeguarded from unauthorized disclosure or modification. These deficiencies are the basis of GAO’s determination that IRS had a material weakness in internal control over financial reporting related to information security in fiscal year 2011.

    Why GAO Did This Study

    The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) has a demanding responsibility in collecting taxes, processing tax returns, and enforcing the nation’s tax laws. It relies extensively on computerized systems to support its financial and mission-related operations and on information security controls to protect financial and sensitive taxpayer information that resides on those systems.

    As part of its audit of IRS’s fiscal years 2011 and 2010 financial statements, GAO assessed whether controls over key financial and tax-processing systems are effective in ensuring the confidentiality, integrity, and availability of financial and sensitive taxpayer information. To do this, GAO examined IRS information security policies, plans, and procedures; tested controls over key financial applications; and interviewed key agency officials at seven sites.

    What GAO Recommends

    GAO recommends that IRS take 6 actions to fully implement key components of its comprehensive information security program. In a separate report with limited distribution, GAO is recommending that IRS take 23 specific actions to correct newly identified control weaknesses. In commenting on a draft of this report, IRS agreed to develop a detailed corrective action plan to address each recommendation.

    For more information, contact Nancy R. Kingsbury at (202) 512-2700 or kingsburyn@gao.gov or Gregory C. Wilshusen at (202) 512-6244

    http://www.gao.gov/products/GAO-12-393
    Highlights – http://www.gao.gov/assets/590/589397.pdf
    Podcast – http://www.gao.gov/multimedia/podcasts/589325or wilshuseng@gao.gov.

  • In the Company of Animals: Art, Literature & Music at the Morgan

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    inspiration for artists, writers, and composers for centuries. From the carving of ancient seals with
    fearsome lions and mythical beasts, to the
    depiction of the serpent in representations of
    Biblical scenes by such luminaries as Albrecht
    Dürer, to more recent portrayals of endearing
    animal figures in children’s stories, such as
    Babar and Winnie the Pooh, animals are
    everywhere. Beginning March 2, The Morgan
    Library & Museum will explore the
    representation of animals—as symbols, muses,
    moral teachers, talking creatures, and beloved
    companions—in eighty works of art,
    demonstrating the varied roles animals have
    played in the hands of some of the most
    renowned artists represented in the Morgan’s
    collections. In the Company of Animals: Art, Literature, and Music at the Morgan will run
    through May 20.
    Press Contacts
    Patrick Milliman
    212.590.0310, pmilliman@themorgan.org
    Alanna Schindewolf
    212.590.0311, aschindewolf@themorgan.org2
    Cyclops Grasping Inverted Lions, Rampant Lions
    Framing His Head
    Mesopotamia, Late Uruk period (ca. 3500-3100
    B.C.)
    Serpentine
    Morgan Seal, no. 4
    “Animals abound in art, literature, and music,” said William M. Griswold, director of The
    Morgan Library & Museum. “Whether it is Albrecht Dürer’s iconic Adam and Eve, Edgar Allen
    Poe’s unforgettable The Raven, or such seminal stories from our childhood as Jean de Brunhoff’s
    Babar and E.B. White’s The Trumpet of the Swan, artists have employed animals throughout
    history to communicate important ideas and themes. In the Company of Animals takes the visitor
    on a delightful and informative tour of some the greatest of these works from the Morgan’s
    superlative collections.”
    SYMBOLS
    “Hope” is the thing with feathers –
    That perches in the soul –
    — Emily Dickinson
    Animals are not always simply animals. They can represent gods, saints, myths, sins,
    temperaments, emotions, and ideas. Since ancient times, artists have repeatedly turned to animals
    to address eternal questions of life and meaning.
    The oldest work in the exhibition, a Mesopotamian
    cylinder seal used to make an impression when rolled
    over damp clay, is datable about 3500–3100 B.C. Lions
    prowl across the surface of the inch-high engraved stone,
    symbolizing  the potential chaos of the natural world.
    Order is restored, however, by the one-eyed hero who
    grasps two lions upside-down. His domination over such
    feared creatures adds to his strength and power.
    The lion is one of many animals that make an appearance
    in Joseph Haydn’s Creation, a musical evocation of
    God’s creation of the world. The first edition on view
    shows the “roaring” lion, as represented by bass trills;
    the leaps of the “flexible tiger,” by ascending runs; and the jumping of the “nimble stag,”
    conveyed by staccato sounds reminiscent of hunting horns. Haydn, who published this first
    edition himself, considered Creation the “greatest work of my life.” 3
    Albrecht Dürer (1471-1528)
    Adam and Eve, 1504
    Engraving on paper
    Purchased as a gift of Eugene V. Thaw, S. Parker Gilbert,
    Rodney B. Berens, Mrs. Oscar de la Renta, Elaine Rosenberg,
    T. Kimball Brooker, George L. K. Frelinghuysen, and on the
    Ryskamp Fund, the Edwin H. Herzog Fund, and the Lois and
    Walter C. Baker Fund
    The fall of Man as depicted in Albrecht Dürer’s masterful
    engraving Adam and Eve, of 1504, is witnessed and aided by
    animals. A serpent twists itself around a branch to offer Eve
    the forbidden fruit as four creatures lie at the couple’s feet.
    Though the references are obscure today, art historian Erwin
    Panofsky noted that an educated person in the sixteenth
    century would have easily recognized the moral connotations
    and the temperaments (or humors) associated with each
    animal: the elk, melancholic gloom; the rabbit, sanguine
    sensuality; the cat, choleric cruelty; and the ox, phlegmatic
    sluggishness.
    Also on display is a letter in which Edgar Allen Poe sends a
    last minute revision of the tenth and eleventh stanzas of “The
    Raven” to John Augustus Shea of The New-York Daily
    Tribune, where the poem appeared the very next day. This revision is the earliest surviving
    portion of “The Raven” in the poet’s hand. Poe’s initial choice for his “bird of ill-omen”
    representing “Mournful and Never-Ending Remembrance” was a parrot. The parrot was, after all,
    capable of speech, but Poe quickly decided that the raven was “infinitely more in keeping with
    the intended tone” of the poem.
    When describing the connection between his work and nature, Jackson Pollock famously
    commented, “I am nature.” Pollock’s Untitled (Abstract Ram) dates about 1944, a time when the
    artist incorporated Jungian theories of the unconscious and imagery of the American Southwest
    into his work. The drawing is suggestive of a sheep-like animal with a circular horn, elongated
    head and muzzle, and swirls of curly wool.  4
    Fables of Æsop according to Sir Roger
    L’Estrange, with fifty drawings by
    Alexander Calder
    Paris: Harrison of Paris; New York: Minton,
    Balch and Company, 1931
    Gift of Mrs. L.B. Wescott, 1976
    © 2012 Calder Foundation, New York /
    Artists Rights Society (ARS), New York
    MORAL TEACHERS
    But ask now the beasts, and they shall teach thee
    — Job 12:7
    Foxes are considered sly, lambs gentle, and owls wise. We often make moral judgments about
    animal behavior, and animals have long served as stand-ins for humans in moral tales, from
    Aesop’s fables to Animal Farm.
    Although Aesop is credited with many of the fables we
    know today—The Tortoise and the Hare, for example—no
    writings securely attributable to the sixth-century B.C.
    Greek storyteller survive. The exhibition includes three
    works related to Aesop, including the earliest known
    manuscript of his life and fables, made in southern Italy in
    the tenth or eleventh century. This manuscript also
    contains the earliest known Greek translation of the
    Fables of Bidpai, animal stories of Indian origin. Similarly
    on view in the exhibition is a 1666 edition of the life and
    fables of Aesop, lavishly illustrated by one of the most
    accomplished animal and bird painters in seventeenthcentury England, Francis Barlow. The page on view
    depicts Aesop surrounded by adoring animals listening to
    one of his tales. Finally, a 1931 edition of Aesop’s fables
    combines stories collected by the seventeenth-century
    English author Roger L’Estrange with fifty illustrations by American artist Alexander Calder.
    First published in 1667, Charles Perrault’s Tales from Times Past, with Morals: Tales of Mother
    Goose remains our source for many traditional fairy tales. Though fairy tales had been told for
    centuries, Perrault was the first to have them written down and published. On display is the
    manuscript page and illustration that tells the tale of Puss in Boots, who uses his industriousness
    and wits to help his penniless owner marry a princess. 5
    Jean de Brunhoff (1899-1937)
    Dummy with illustration for page nine of Histoire de
    Babar, le petit éléphant
    Ink and watercolor drawing with handwritten text on paper
    Gift of Laurent, Mathieu, and Thierry de Brunhoff, and
    purchased with the assistance of The Florence Gould
    Foundation and the Acquisitions Fund, Fellows
    Endowment Fund, Gordon N. Ray Fund, and the Heineman
    Fund, 2004
    Photography: Schecter Lee
    TALKING CREATURES
    “An animal is something you feel like talking to.”
    — A child’s definition of an animal (1951)
    Storytellers have long used talking animals to highlight human foibles. Unlike the animals in
    fables and fairy tales, which maintain their animal characteristics, the talking creatures in this
    section of the exhibition blur the distinction between animal and human.
    George Orwell had a difficult time finding a publisher for Animal Farm, his tale of a utopia gone
    wrong, at the end of WWII. As Orwell himself noted, “the fable does follow…so completely the
    progress of the Russian Soviets and their two dictators, that it can apply only to Russia….” He
    further surmised, “it would be less offensive if the predominant caste in the fable were not pigs.”
    A first edition of the novel (eventually published in 1945) shows Orwell’s original subtitle,
    Animal Farm: A Fairy Story.
    A life-long equestrian, Anna Sewell was appalled by the way horses, especially working horses,
    were often treated by their owners. She said that her purpose in writing Black Beauty, her only
    novel, was “to induce kindness, sympathy, and an understanding treatment of horses.” Sewell’s
    endeavor would appear to have been successful—the novel remains one of the best-selling books
    of all time. According to the title page of the 1877 first edition on view, the novel is translated
    from the “original equine.”
    “It was a dark and stormy night….” So begins every story
    that Snoopy, Charlie Brown’s pet beagle and struggling
    novelist, attempts. The comic strip character was silent for
    two years before creator Charles M. Schulz gave him a
    voice. Inspired by his childhood dog Spike, Schulz, decided
    to let Snoopy “think,” noting that he had always thought
    there were “a lot of dogs that were smarter than their young
    masters.” The illustration on display shows Snoopy
    beginning another tale.
    Although a favorite among children, Jean de Brunhoff’s
    Babar faces adult-size challenges. In his illustration for page
    nine of Histoire de Babar, the young elephant—not yet in 6
    Rembrandt Harmensz. van Rijn (1606-1669)
    Forequarters of an Elephant, ca. 1637
    Counterproof in black chalk on paper
    his signature green suit—arrives at the edge of the city. The scene becomes melancholy when one
    realizes that Babar is on his own, his mother having just been killed by a hunter.
    Sometimes musical instruments, rather than words, give a character his or her voice. Included in
    the exhibition are the typescript and manuscript for E.B. White’s The Trumpet of the Swan, a tale
    of a swan named Louis who, born mute, finds his voice after discovering his talents on the
    trumpet. White’s typescript and manuscript are on view. Sergey Prokofiev completed his Peter
    and the Wolf—a commissioned work intended to educate young children’s musical tastes—in just
    four days. Haunting French horns represent the wolf within the piano score on view.
    MUSES
    “… endless forms most beautiful and most wonderful have been, and are being, evolved.”
    — Charles Darwin, Origin of Species (1859)
    Animals have long served as scientific and aesthetic inspiration, sometimes simultaneously. This
    section presents works ranging from thirteenth-century Persia to twentieth-century America,
    including a number of examples from the Renaissance, when a new perspective on the natural
    world created a lasting interest in observing, categorizing, and understanding animals. Some
    works reflect journeys to distant lands, filled with strange and wonderful creatures. Others show
    an interest in those subjects closer to home, including depictions of rural life and domestic
    animals.
    Masters of the human figure, Rembrandt Harmensz. van Rijn
    and Peter Paul Rubens also made a number of animal
    sketches. Rembrandt’s Forequarters of an Elephant, of about
    1637, is thought to be one of several depictions of a female
    elephant named Hansken who traveled from Ceylon to
    Amsterdam in 1637. The artist paid special attention to the
    texture of Hansken’s skin, and accurately depicted her with
    no tusks. Rubens’s Study of a Sleeping Lion is a preparatory
    sketch for one of the ten lions that appear in his dramatic,
    large painting Daniel in the Lions’ Den.  7
    Jacob de Gheyn (1565–1629)
    Studies of a Frog, Dragonfly, and Fantastic Bird
    Black chalk, metalpoint, watercolor and gouache, pen and
    brown ink
    Thaw Collection
    Photography, David A. Loggie
    The lion appears again in Ibn Bakhtīshū’s Manafi  -I hayavan, an important thirteenth-century
    Persian manuscript. The work describes the nature of humans, animals, birds, reptiles, fish, and
    insects, and also offers advice on the medicinal uses of animals. According to the text, “the tooth
    of a lion tied on a child makes teething easy.”
    In the sixteenth century when Dutch artist Jacob
    de Gheyn sketched his Studies of a Frog,
    Dragonfly, and Fantastic Bird, creatures such as
    the unicorn and the griffin were still believed to
    exist. Even Leonardo da Vinci included the
    occasional dragon in his sketches. Also on
    display is an anonymous watercolor of a lynx
    and recumbent unicorn from a fifteenth-century
    model book—an essential point of reference for
    medieval artists who wished to depict animals—
    which shows a similar pairing of reality and
    myth.
    John James Audubon is best known for his meticulous depictions of animals, such as this
    preparatory study for Gray Rabbit: Old male, female, and young, which later appeared in his The
    Viviparous Quadrupeds of North America
    (1845–1848). In addition to his published
    comments on rabbits’ tendency to make
    “inroads upon the kitchen-garden, feasting on
    the young green peas, lettuces, cabbages, &c.,
    and doing a great deal of mischief,” Audubon
    also added a deeply personal note on the
    reverse of the drawing: “I drew this Hare
    during one of the days of deepest sorrow I
    have felt in my life, and my only solace was
    derived from my Labour. This morning our
    beloved Daughter[-in-law] Eliza died.”
    John James Audubon (1785-1851)
    Gray Rabbit: Old male, female, and young
    Watercolor and graphite, with gouache on cream wove paper 8
    A celebration of pure fancy, Debussy’s ballet for
    children, La boîte à joujoux (The Toy Box), follows a
    group of toys that come to life, escape from their box,
    fall in love, and go off on adventures. The first edition
    on view shows the charming illustrations of artist
    André Hellé, who also conceived of the story.
    COMPANIONS
    “Animals are such agreeable friends —
    they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms.”
    — from Scenes of Clerical Life, George Eliot
    What do our relationships with animals reveal about ourselves? How can we imagine and
    appreciate the lives of others, whether they be animal or human? The strong bond between
    animals and humans is explored in these works, which focus on the beloved companions of
    writers and artists, as well as fictional and mythological characters.
    St. Francis, the patron saint of animals, is represented in an illuminated Belgian psalter dating to
    1270–1280. In the page on display, St. Francis preaches to an audience of birds that reportedly
    did not fly away until he was finished speaking. St. Francis
    was said to have hoped for “an edict prohibiting anyone
    from catching or imprisoning my sisters the larks.”
    When poet Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s beloved cocker
    spaniel, Flush, was returned after being held for ransom,
    he “threw himself into my arms .. palpitating with joy .. in
    that dumb inarticulate ecstasy which is so affecting .. love
    without speech!” Browning related the story in a letter to
    Richard H. Horne, including a sketch of “Flushie,” noting
    that he is “my friend—my companion—& loves me better
    Claude Debussy (1862-1918)
    La boîte à joujoux: ballet pour enfants
    Illustrations by André Hellé
    Paris: Durand, ca. 1913
    Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861)
    Letter signed: London, to Richard H. Horne,
    October 5, 1843
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    than he loves the sunshine without.”
    Virginia Woolf took up the subject of Barrett Browning’s pet in Flush: a biography, in which she
    imagines life from the dog’s perspective. In one scene, Woolf addresses a quandary of particular
    interest to her: that we can feel so close to an animal though it remains ultimately unknowable.
    She considers Flush’s lack of reaction to his likeness in Barrett Browning’s letter: “He could
    smell nothing; he could hear nothing … The fact was that they could not communicate with
    words, and it was a fact that led undoubtedly to much misunderstanding. Yet did it not lead also
    to a peculiar intimacy?”
    One hundred fifty years after Barrett Browning
    described her relationship with Flush, David
    Hockney made a similar observation about his
    dachshunds, Boodgie and Stanley, noting,
    “These two dear little creatures are my friends…I
    notice the shapes they make together, their
    sadness and their delight.” Special preparations
    were needed for Hockney’s series of drawings of
    his dogs: “I had to leave large sheets of paper all
    over the house and studio to catch them sitting
    or sleeping without disturbance.” The drawing
    on view shows Boodgie and Stanley resting on a
    cushion, curved around one another.
    T.S. Eliot—“Old Possum” to his godchildren—published Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats in
    1939 with inspiration from his own cat, Jellylorum. The idea for a book of poems about cats and
    their nature began with an illustrated letter from Eliot to his four-year-old godson Tam Faber. In
    it, he speaks of Jellylorum, whose “one idea is to be useful.” He “straightens the pictures” by
    swinging on them and “looks into the dustbin to see that nothing’s wasted.” Eliot illustrated the
    dust jacket for the first edition on display.
    A nineteenth-century drawing by Nicolas Hüet depicts an unusual variety of companion, a giraffe
    known as Zarafa with her Sudanese caretaker, Atir. The giraffe was a political gift from
    Muhammed Ali, the Ottoman Viceroy of Egypt, to Charles X of France in an attempt to convince
    the King not to interfere in the war between the Ottoman Empire and the Greeks. After a two-year
    David Hockney (1937– )
    Boodgie and Stanley, 1993
    Crayon on paper
    22 ½ x 30 ¼ in.
    Thaw Collection
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    journey from Sudan to Paris (which included two boat rides
    and a 550 mile walk from Marseilles to Paris), Zarafa lived
    with Atir in the Jardin des Plantes for eighteen years, where he
    “slept within scratching reach of her head.”
    PUBLIC PROGRAMS
    TALK
    Animalish
    with Susan Orlean
    Thursday, March 8, 6:30 pm
    Noted New Yorker magazine writer and author Susan Orlean (Rin Tin Tin: The Life and the
    Legend, The Orchid Thief) will offer her take on living with animals and their evolving place in
    our lives, from the backyard to the family home. In the Company of Animals: Art, Literature, and
    Music at the Morgan will be open at 5:30 pm especially for program attendees.
    Tickets: $15; $10 for Members
    GALLERY TALK
    In the Company of Animals: Art, Literature, and Music at the Morgan
    Friday, March 9, 7 pm
    Clara Drummond, Assistant Curator, Literary and Historical Manuscripts, leads this informal tour
    of the exhibition.
    Free
    FILMS
    Animated Animals
    Friday, April 13, 7 pm
    Nicolas Hüet (1770-1828)
    Study of the Giraffe Given to Charles X by the
    Viceroy of Egypt, ca. 1827
    Watercolor and some gouache, over traces of black
    chalk, on paper.
    Purchased on the Sunny Crawford von Bülow
    Fund, 1978 11
    My Dog Tulip
    (2009, 83 minutes)
    Directors: Paul and Sandra Fierlinger
    This heartwarming film follows the journey of an elderly English bachelor, an excitable German
    shepherd, and their very unlikely friendship. Based on J.R. Ackerley’s book of the same name,
    My Dog Tulip features the award-winning animations of Paul Fierlinger and the voices of
    Christopher Plummer, Lynn Redgrave, Isabella Rossellini, and Euan Morton.
    preceded by
    Animal Beatbox
    (2011, 3 minutes)
    Director: Damon Gameau
    From aardvark to zebra, this stop-motion film celebrates the wonders of the animal kingdom to an
    infectious beat. Made in a spare room of the director’s mother’s house on an impressively modest
    budget of $85, Animal Beatbox took top prize at the Australian short film festival Tropfest in
    2011.
    Free
    FAMILY PROGRAM
    My Book is a Beast
    Saturday, April 21, 2–4 pm
    Join book artist and educator Stephanie Krause in a creative book making workshop inspired by
    the exhibitions In the Company of Animals: Art, Literature, and Music at the Morgan and
    Rembrandt’s World: Dutch Drawings from the Clement C. Moore Collection. After a quick tour
    of the exhibitions, children will bind and decorate their own animal-shaped journals using
    beautiful papers and fine art materials.
    Tickets: Adults: $6; $4 for Members; $2 for Children.
    TICKETS
    Available online at www.themorgan.org/public, or by calling (212) 685-0008 x560.
    ORGANIZATION AND SPONSORSHIP
    In the Company of Animals is organized by Clara Drummond, Assistant Curator, Literary and
    Historical Manuscripts.
    This exhibition is supported by a generous gift from Tina Santi Flaherty, in honor of her faithful
    companions Jackie, a white Labrador retriever, and Scarlett, a King Charles spaniel.
    Additional assistance is provided by the Janine Luke and Melvin R. Seiden Fund for Exhibitions
    and Publications, and by Jeannette and Jonathan P. Rosen. 12
    The Morgan Library & Museum
    The Morgan Library & Museum began as the private library of financier Pierpont Morgan, one of
    the preeminent collectors and cultural benefactors in the United States. Today, more than a
    century after its founding in 1906, the Morgan serves as a museum, independent research library,
    musical venue, architectural landmark, and historic site. In October 2010, the Morgan completed
    the first-ever restoration of its original McKim building, Pierpont Morgan’s private library, and
    the core of the institution. In tandem with the 2006 expansion project by architect Renzo Piano,
    the Morgan now provides visitors unprecedented access to its world-renowned collections of
    drawings, literary and historical manuscripts, musical scores, medieval and Renaissance
    manuscripts, printed books, and ancient Near Eastern seals and tablets.
    General Information
    The Morgan Library & Museum
    225 Madison Avenue, at 36th Street, New York, NY 10016-3405
    212.685.0008
    www.themorgan.org
    Hours
    Tuesday–Thursday, 10:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.; extended Friday hours, 10:30 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Saturday,
    10 a.m. to 6 p.m.; Sunday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.; closed Mondays, Thanksgiving Day, Christmas
    Day, and New Year’s Day. The Morgan closes at 4 p.m. on Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve.
    Admission
    $15 for adults; $10 for students, seniors (65 and over), and children (under 16); free to Members
    and children 12 and under accompanied by an adult. Admission is free on Fridays from 7 to 9
    p.m. Admission is not required to visit the Morgan Shop.
    The programs of The Morgan Library & Museum are made possible
    with public funds from the New York City Department of Cultural
    Affairs in partnership with the City Council, and from the New York
    State Council on the Arts, a state agency.

    Animals have provided a particularly fertile source of inspiration for artists, writers, and composers for centuries. From the carving of ancient seals with fearsome lions and mythical beasts, to the depiction of the serpent in representations of Biblical scenes by such luminaries as Albrecht Dürer, to more recent portrayals of endearing animal figures in children’s stories, such as Babar and Winnie the Pooh, animals are everywhere. The Morgan Library & Museum through May 20 is  exploring the representation of animals — as symbols, muses, moral teachers, talking creatures, and beloved companions — in eighty works of art, demonstrating the varied roles animals have played in the hands of some of the most renowned artists represented in the Morgan’s collections.

    “Animals abound in art, literature, and music,” said William M. Griswold, director of The Morgan Library & Museum. “Whether it is Albrecht Dürer’s iconic Adam and Eve, Edgar Allen Poe’s unforgettable The Raven, or such seminal stories from our childhood as Jean de Brunhoff’s Babar and E.B. White’s The Trumpet of the Swan, artists have employed animals throughout history to communicate important ideas and themes. In the Company of Animals takes the visitor on a delightful and informative tour of some the greatest of these works from the Morgan’s superlative collections.

    SYMBOLS

    “Hope” is the thing with feathers – Adam and Eve by Durer
    That perches in the soul –
    —  Emily Dickinson

    Animals are not always simply animals. They can represent gods, saints, myths, sins, temperaments, emotions, and ideas. Since ancient times, artists have repeatedly turned to animals to address eternal questions of life and meaning.

    The oldest work in the exhibition, a Mesopotamian cylinder seal used to make an impression when rolled over damp clay, is datable about 3500–3100 B.C. Lions prowl across the surface of the inch-high engraved stone, symbolizing  the potential chaos of the natural world. Order is restored, however, by the one-eyed hero who grasps two lions upside-down. His domination over such feared creatures adds to his strength and power.

    The lion is one of many animals that make an appearance in Joseph Haydn’s Creation, a musical evocation of God’s creation of the world. The first edition on view shows the “roaring” lion, as represented by bass trills; the leaps of the “flexible tiger,” by ascending runs; and the jumping of the “nimble stag,” conveyed by staccato sounds reminiscent of hunting horns. Haydn, who published this first edition himself, considered Creation the “greatest work of my life.”   The fall of Man as depicted in Albrecht Dürer’s masterful engraving Adam and Eve, of 1504, is witnessed and aided by animals. A serpent twists itself around a branch to offer Eve the forbidden fruit as four creatures lie at the couple’s feet. Though the references are obscure today, art historian Erwin Panofsky noted that an educated person in the sixteenth century would have easily recognized the moral connotations and the temperaments (or humors) associated with each animal: the elk, melancholic gloom; the rabbit, sanguine sensuality; the cat, choleric cruelty; and the ox, phlegmatic sluggishness.

    All works: The Morgan Library & Museum, New York.  All photography, unless otherwise noted:  Graham S. Haber, 2011

    Nicolas Hüet (1770-1828), Study of the Giraffe Given to Charles X by the Viceroy of Egypt, ca. 1827. Watercolor and some gouache, over traces of black chalk, on paper.  Purchased on the Sunny Crawford von Bülow Fund, 1978

    Albrecht Dürer (1471-1528) Adam and Eve, 1504. Engraving on paper. Purchased as a gift of Eugene V. Thaw, S. Parker Gilbert, Rodney B. Berens, Mrs. Oscar de la Renta, Elaine Rosenberg, T. Kimball Brooker, George L. K. Frelinghuysen, and on the Ryskamp Fund, the Edwin H. Herzog Fund, and the Lois and Walter C. Baker Fund

  • Elaine Soloway’s Caregiving Series: Matching Bands

    by Elaine Soloway


    In 1998, when Tommy and I got married, we went to Service Merchandise to buy matching gold wedding bands. It was the second marriage for both, we were in our 60’s. I think we paid $25 for each. Fancy gems weren’t important to us back then; still aren’t.

    This year — 2012  — our gold rings still encircle our fingers, but we’ve added an accessory just a few inches below these symbols of our union.

    We wear matching black flex bands with 2-inch-wide stainless metal plates. The engraving on the front side of Tommy’s reads:  “Tom Madison, Aphasia, Chicago.” On the inside:  “Call Wife, Elaine Soloway,” and my cell phone number.

    While Tommy’s band is size 7, mine is 6. Engraved on the front side of mine is simply, “Elaine Soloway, Chicago.” Thus far, I have no medical issue that requires explanation. Arthritis doesn’t count, does it?

    On the reverse of my band: “In Emergency, H. Soloway, MD,” with my ex-husband’s cell phone number. The two bands cost $46.90 including shipping and handling. Nearly the same as our gold ones.

    I ordered our medical alert bracelets after Tommy got lost. “You shouldn’t let him travel alone,” a daughter had warned. But, I knew he treasured his CTA senior card, and I believed since all previous trips returned him home safely, he’d be fine. I had already taken away his car keys. I hated the idea of robbing him of one more symbol of independence.

    On the afternoon Tommy got lost, he was on his way to see his speech therapist. Her office is at Michigan Ave. between Randolph and Washington in Chicago. One hour and 15 minutes after he left, the home phone rang. No one except marketers call on this line, and I’ve urged Tommy to only use my cell. But, I answered it.

    Dead air. Finally, garbled words. “Honey, where are you?” I said. I held on to my desk. “Mmmm,” he got out.

    “Are you in the subway?” I envisioned him in the depths, alone, scared. My grip tightened.

    “Mmmm,” he repeated.

    “Honey,” I pleaded. “Please find someone you can hand the phone to.” 

    I was grateful he carried his cell phone, grateful he could punch in the number — even if it was the landline — but terrified on how to find him.

    Finally, a female voice. “Hi, this is Marcello’s.” 

    “Marcello’s on North Ave. and Halsted?” I asked. 

    “Yes.”

    “Tell my husband to wait there, I’m on my way.”

    “Oh, he’s okay,” she said. “He just bought a slice of coffee cake.”

    You know those photos of people doing super-human feats in an emergency? Wee women lifting automobiles off of trapped victims?

  • Making Us Into Make-Believers: Hype and Hope; Before and After

    by Doris O’Brien

    No hyphenated word in the English language holds more promise than “age-defying.”  When you match a  world-weary noun  like “age,” with   a vigorous verb like “defy,” something‘s gotta give.  It’s almost like  the anticipated triumph of good over evil.

    While I haven’t yet succumbed to Botox or other even costlier “treatments,” I admit to having made a few purchases of products that claim to remove wrinkles, crows-feet, fine lines, frown lines, age spots, brown spots, puffiness, dark circles, cellulite and other unseemly distractions that over the long years become beauty’s  unwanted blemishes .

    At the same time, I am aware of the age-old (that again!) axiom  “You are what you eat,” which embodies the caveat that no night cream, no matter what its secret ingredients, can dissolve years of poor eating habits and other inadvisable tendencies.    It’s as though our faces have the potential of becoming one large, crumble-prone potato chip.  In other words, even if you are free to lay on the lotions, it cannot exorcise an addiction to Frito Lay.Marilyn Applying Makeup

    Still, we see those enticing  “before” and “after” pictures,  accompanied by glowing testimonials from  “ordinary” people who claim to have defied age.   We are confronted by these ecstatic,  metamorphisized mortals in magazines, on TV, and now even on the Internet. A rejuvenated lady looks directly at us across the airwaves and announces, “I’m ____ and I’m 70 years old.  Can you believe it?”

    Well, believe it or not, the possibilities have made make-believers of us all!  Despite the occasional confusion between “defying” and  “denying,”  it appears that in good times and bad, the vane — maybe in-vain — search to redeem our “image” has routinely pumped billions into the cosmetics and skin care industries.   The expression “age before beauty,”  has become outdated, now that we have come to expect beauty to trump age in the stacked deck of life.   By way of consolation, we are promised a pricey truce between the warring factions, contained in a magical little vessel worthy of a genie himself.

    What did women do before such hype and hope?   How did our aging  female ancestors cope when they looked into a glass darkly?  By what right did a weathered face go from possessing “character” to pleading for revitalization?  And when did we buy into the expectation of living longer,  while not looking as though we had?

    Recently I made the fleeting acquaintance of a woman riding on the same city bus.  Within the space of four blocks, she told me that she was in her late sixties,  obviously confiding that piece of unsolicited information because she thought she looked a lot younger.  I had figured she was about 75 years old.  “Well, that’s wonderful!” I responded.

    Do we ever ask ourselves what the thriving, profit-driven cosmetics industry is all about?  Is it really “age-defying” — or is it playing to our desires to defy a lot more?  Indeed, what they offer are products suited for an era when those who age often feel as dispensable as everything else around them that is marked by years  —   from appliances to fashion to marriage.  Highly-successful chain stores (e.g. “Forever 21”) have sprung up in order to cater to young people who want cheap and stylish clothing that can be tossed after a season or two without sincere financial pangs of regret.  Similarly, dumping “older” wives (or sweethearts) for younger ones is no longer a privilege reserved for the well-heeled heel.   In fact, much of our  cosmetics mania may spring from the perception of reality on various levels — relationships, jobs,  etc. —  that age is going out of style.

    Not all women buy into cosmetic promises with the expectation of miraculous results.  In this day and age (that again!) we are supposed to be a lot smarter. Surely, if there were a fountain of youth, its  cascading contents would not rely on sleazy ads that end with, “But, wait, if you act now we will send you two for the same price!”  But let’s face it:  hope, unlike a healthy glow, springs eternal.  And considering the sluggish economy, why throw mud in the age-defying face of yet another industry?

    ©2012 Doris O’Brien for SeniorWomen.com

    Promotion photo by (Edward William) Cronenweth: Marilyn Monroe, ingenue lead in Columbia’s Ladies of the Chorus demonstrates the proper way to make up the lips.

  • In Case The Word ‘Energy’ Comes Up, This Is Not Drill, Baby, Drill

    We do occasionally list GAO reports for our audience, but generally they focus on retirement and health issues. Today’s report listed the number of energy-related initiatives that were implemented in the fiscal year of 2010. We know that the issue will be raised during the election year of 2012 and thought that we should highlight the report’s findings. *Below you will find who/what the GAO is, just in case they are not familiar.  This is an agency to admire — nay, to love.GAO seal

    What GAO Found

    Governmentwide, 23 agencies and their 130 subagencies GAO reviewed implemented nearly 700 renewable energy initiatives in fiscal year 2010. The Departments of Defense (DOD), Agriculture (USDA), Energy (DOE), and the Interior were collectively responsible for almost 60 percent of all initiatives.

    The initiatives supported a range of renewable energy sources, and the most commonly supported sources were bioenergy, solar, and wind. Also, the initiatives supported a range of public and private sector recipients, but the large majority provided support to the private sector. Many initiatives supported multiple renewable energy sources and types of recipients, while many others targeted support to one source or recipient. Agencies’ renewable energy efforts increased in recent years as a result of the provisions of the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009 and other factors, but the level of future efforts is less certain with the expiration of these provisions and budget constraints.

    Across agencies, more than 80 percent of initiatives span four key federal roles — supporting research and development; using renewable energy in vehicle fleets and facilities; providing incentives for commercialization and deployment; and regulation, permitting, and ensuring compliance. Certain agencies led efforts in each federal role: DOE, DOD, and USDA for research and development; DOD, the General Services Administration, and DOE for fleets and facilities; Treasury and USDA for commercialization and deployment; and Interior and the Environmental Protection Agency for regulation, permitting, and compliance.

    Why GAO Did This Study

    The nation’s reliance on imported oil, rising energy costs, and fossil fuels’ potential contribution to climate change have renewed the federal focus on renewable energy. Many federal agencies support renewable energy activities, raising congressional concerns about the number and roles of agencies implementing such efforts. Currently, there is no comprehensive inventory of federal renewable energy initiatives, making it difficult to identify potential fragmentation or duplication.

    GAO was asked to (1) identify agencies’ renewable energy-related initiatives and (2) examine the federal roles agencies’ initiatives supported. GAO collected data from agencies’ budget documents, strategic plans, websites, and through agency data requests and interviews with officials from most of the 24 federal agencies subject to the Chief Financial Officers Act of 1990. These 24 agencies accounted for roughly 98 percent of all federal outlays in 2009. GAO developed an inventory of agencies’ renewable energy initiatives, including initiatives for which renewable energy was the focus, as well as initiatives for which it was part of a broader effort. GAO focused on developing this inventory, and as such, did not evaluate initiatives based on financial support or other factors.

    This report contains no recommendations. In response to the draft report, Commerce agreed with the overall findings as they relate to the Department, while Homeland Security neither agreed nor disagreed with GAO’s findings. The other agencies provided technical or clarifying comments, which GAO incorporated as appropriate, or had no comments.

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    Highlights of GAO-12-260, a report to the Committee on Homeland Security and Governmental Affairs, U.S. Senate

     

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  • Culture Watch Reviews

    In This Issue:

    Daniel Handler specializes in a light-semi-irreverent tone that manages also to be perceptive and truthful, even as it entertains, in Why We Broke Up, a story of teenage love gone awry. Robert Morgan has crafted a story of the life of Daniel Boone, Boone, A Biography, to rival the best fiction, while demonstrating the most diligent scholarship and devotion to primary sources any reader could ask for. 

    Books

    WHY WE BROKE UP

    by Daniel Handler, © 2011; art © 2011 by Maira Kalman

    Published by Little, Brown and Company; Hardcover; 354 pp

    For those of us who don’t delve deep into the business of pseudonyms, let me note from the outset that Daniel Handler is the real name of the man who is known to a generation of children as Lemony Snicket. Handler is the author of novels for adults, but as Snicket, he has produced many kids’ books, for example: A Series of Unfortunate Events, and 13 Words. Although the subject matter found in either age group is usually appropriate for the intended audience, this reviewer doesn’t find much difference in Handler/Snicket’s style between the two genres: He specializes in a light, semi-irreverent tone that manages also to be perceptive and truthful, even as it entertains.

    The subject matter this go ‘round is an all-too-familiar story of teenage love gone awry, and if you have ever been involved in a sorry high school romance, you will probably see that Handler pretty much hits the nail on its proverbial head.

    Maira Kalman, whose books and artwork have long provided us with delight, has quietly stepped up to illustrate this all-too-familiar tale. This is not to say that her role is in any way secondary; her paintings are quirky and wonderful. (I promised myself I would write a Kalman review without using the word “quirky,” but there you have it: there’s no escape).

    The story is narrated by a girl named Min, “short for Minerva, Roman goddess of wisdom … and … don’t even ask, no you couldn’t , only my grandmother could call me ‘Minnie’ because, she told me, and I imitated her voice, she loved me the best of anyone.

    Min is what the high school jocks and cheerleaders call the “arty” type, decidedly different from the in-group of teenagers in her school. She wants to be a movie director when she grows up, and pals around with a boy named Al, with whom she goes to the foreign films that produce a large part of her vernacular. Imaginative, creative, impulsive, Min has a small but lively group of friends.

    At Al’s “Bitter Sixteen” birthday party, Min connects with Ed Slaterton, high school jock, a basketball star who is good at math as well as sports, and is handsome and popular. They quickly become a hot item.

    The format of this book is a long letter that Min writes to Ed after she has discovered him cheating on her. She has kept many bits and pieces of their time together, souvenirs that she has put into a big box in her closet “under some shoes I never wear,” in an attempt at privacy. Now she goes through them, re-living each event and in her description connected to each object, she pretty much uncovers why she is breaking up with him despite having loved him with a desperate teenage potency. She intends to dump the box on his doorstep when she is through with her catalogue of their time together.

    Handler’s recounting of their dating relationship is pretty much pitch-perfect, including the loss of Min’s virginity, which comes off as just one more step in their naturally evolving relationship, not portrayed as the devastating event that the books of my youth would have made it. That’s probably a healthy attitude in this day and age, but coming at it from a senior’s point of view, I found myself wondering if today’s kids are really that able to take the long view.